Silver-wolfe ([info]silver_wolfe) wrote,
@ 2005-10-16 13:07:00
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Current mood: depressed
Current music:I Wish I had an Angel by Nightwish

What to do...
just sitting here in bed, depressed as always. wondering what I should do.
I'm getting tired of being every girls' friend but never being given the chance to be more.
Alway, always do I get the "I dont want to loose you as a friend" line as they jump all over some "pretty boy" or "bad boy". I thought a true relationship had to start somewhere with a good foundation, and if that foundation isnt build on a strong frienship then how can it last? How can a woman date someone she dont really know over someone she has known and liked a year or more? you know how shitty it feels to never be given a chance?

I'm tired of being "just friends"

I think I was born broken


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[info]cloakedstoat
2005-10-16 07:05 pm UTC (link)
Well, like I think you can probably remember from a conversation we've had in the past, I can totally hear you on this one. I too hear "I don't want to lose you as a friend" entirely too effin' often.

Yeah. Sometimes if a friendship moves into a relationship, and that relationship doesn't work out, it can screw up the friendship. But in my experience (and I realize my experience is probably skewed, but whatever) it's just as - if not more - likely that the friendship can remain, and even grow stronger (provided the people involved are actually mature individuals).

All of, oh, once, I have believed the "I don't want to lose you as a friend" line. Every other time? They were gorram cowards who didn't want to own up to not being interested in me. So while they might not have _lost_ me as a friend, they lost respect. Because I can't stand dishonesty - even if it is to "protect my feelings" or any bullshite like that. If more people would be willing to either own up to what they actually mean - or at least be honest enough to say "the answer is no, and I'm sorry but I'm really not comfortable explaining why," it would be better. For some reason it's easier to get over it when I know where I really stand with them.

Er... sorry, I've ranted the hell out of your comments field. I'll be over... um... here now. Oh, and double-checking to make sure you're on all my filters - because I think you could probably relate to some of the junk I'm going through lately.

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[info]cloakedstoat
2005-10-16 07:12 pm UTC (link)
You weren't - you are now. You should see the first new post on that filter in just a moment, because there were a few other people I realized I could probably add to that filter while I was in the edit screen checking anyway.

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[info]silver_wolfe
2005-10-17 04:11 am UTC (link)
Thx for your thoughts Lacy feel free to rant on my rants any time :) i'd post a reply to yours but i'm sleepy right now, going to bed for work in the morning, you know how it goes, prolly reply later though after work.

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